A few minutes of checking can save you a lot of heartache. Here is a simple process to confirm your match is real.
1. Check for a verified badge
Most major dating sites offer photo or ID verification. A badge doesn’t guarantee good intentions, but it confirms the photos match the person.
2. Reverse image search
- Save or screenshot one of their photos.
- Upload it to Google Lens (images.google.com) or TinEye.
- Check whether the same photo appears under a different name.
3. Video call
A short video call confirms identity better than anything else. Real people agree to it; scammers make excuses.
4. Search their details
Search their first name with their city, workplace or university. Check whether their social media accounts look genuine and established.
5. Watch for red flags
Pressure to move off the site, stories about money, or refusal to meet are all warning signs. Read our 12 warning signs of romance scams.
6. Plan a safe first meeting
Meet in public, tell a friend, and arrange your own transport. More ideas in our first date guide.
Frequently asked questions
Is it okay to look someone up before a date?
Yes. Basic checks using public information are a sensible safety step, as long as you respect their privacy.