Rankings

The Best Dating Sites and Apps for Every Goal and Age

Of the best dating sites, Hinge is our top pick if you want a relationship, eHarmony suits marriage-minded daters and Tinder has the biggest free pool. Below is our full list of dating sites, from the top 10 to niche apps.

Our top 3 dating sites

Best overall

Detailed profiles, free messaging and a relationship-minded crowd.

Visit Hinge

Best for serious relationships

Compatibility matching for people ready to commit.

Visit eHarmony

Best free site

The biggest pool, and you can match and chat for free.

Visit Tinder

Comparison at a glance

SiteRatingBest forFree versionPaid fromLink
Hinge 4.5 Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s Yes ≈ $16.99 (US App Store) Visit
eHarmony 4.4 Serious relationships and marriage Limited shown after you sign up Visit
Bumble 4.2 A big, well-moderated swipe app Yes ≈ $2.99 for Boost (US App Store) Visit
Match 4.2 Serious daters who like to search Yes ≈ $19.99 (US App Store) Visit
Tinder 4.0 Meeting lots of people fast Yes ≈ $9.99 (US App Store) Visit
OkCupid 4.0 Matching on values and answers as well as photos Yes ≈ $10/mo Visit
SilverSingles 4.2 Over 50s who want an age-limited, verified community Limited ≈ $18.99/mo (US App Store) Visit
EliteSingles 3.5 Busy professionals who want something serious Limited ≈ $64.99 for 1 month Visit
Coffee Meets Bagel 3.9 Busy people who want fewer, better matches Yes ≈ $34.99/mo (US App Store) Visit
HER 4.1 LGBTQ+ women and queer people Yes ≈ $14.99 (US App Store) Visit
Zoosk 3.8 Casual to serious dating on a budget Limited ≈ $29.99 (US App Store) Visit
OurTime 3.9 Over 50s who like to browse Limited ≈ $19.99 for 1 week (US App Store) Visit
Christian Mingle 3.9 Christian singles in the US, Canada and Australia Yes ≈ $49.99/mo (US App Store) Visit
Plenty of Fish 3.6 Free messaging and searching a big pool yourself Yes ≈ $19.99 (US App Store) Visit
Badoo 3.7 Meeting people nearby on a budget Yes ≈ $13.99/week for Premium (US) Visit
Facebook Dating 3.7 Trying online dating without paying anything Yes No paid plans Visit
Hily 3.6 Younger daters who want a free, easy swipe app Yes ≈ $7.99 (US App Store) Visit
happn 3.6 City dwellers who want to meet people nearby Yes ≈ $14.99 (US App Store) Visit

Find the best dating site for you

43 rankings for specific audiences, communities and countries.

Full ranking

1

Hinge

4.5

Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s

  • Detailed, conversation-friendly profiles
  • Strong focus on real relationships
  • Free version is usable, with free faith and ethnicity filters
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $16.99 (US App Store)
2

eHarmony

4.4

Best for: Serious relationships and marriage

  • Strong focus on long-term compatibility
  • Detailed quiz and compatibility scores
  • Free Basic membership with no time limit
Free version
Limited
Premium
shown after you sign up
3

Bumble

4.2

Best for: A big, well-moderated swipe app

  • Big pool, with 100M+ Google Play downloads
  • Photo verification required in the US
  • Free in-app voice and video calls
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $2.99 for Boost (US App Store)
4

Match

4.2

Best for: Serious daters who like to search

  • Large, relationship-minded community
  • Free members can chat with their matches
  • Strong search, on the web and in apps
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $19.99 (US App Store)
5

Tinder

4.0

Best for: Meeting lots of people fast

  • Huge, active user base almost everywhere
  • Free version lets you match and chat
  • Very fast and easy to use
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $9.99 (US App Store)
6

OkCupid

4.0

Best for: Matching on values and answers as well as photos

  • Match percentage based on real answers
  • Free messaging with matches
  • Over 60 gender and orientation options, plus pronouns
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $10/mo
7

Best for: Over 50s who want an age-limited, verified community

  • Only singles over 50
  • Every visible profile verified by selfie video
  • Voice and video calls that hide your number
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $18.99/mo (US App Store)
8

Best for: Busy professionals who want something serious

  • Profiles are reviewed before they go live
  • Selfie-video photo verification
  • Voice calls inside the site
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $64.99 for 1 month

Best for: Busy people who want fewer, better matches

  • Free likes and chat with your daily matches
  • Free ethnicity, religion and relationship-goal preferences
  • Selfie verification
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $34.99/mo (US App Store)
10

HER

4.1

Best for: LGBTQ+ women and queer people

  • Focused LGBTQ+ community
  • Free matching and messaging
  • Communities beyond dating
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $14.99 (US App Store)
11

Zoosk

3.8

Best for: Casual to serious dating on a budget

  • Mix of swiping, browsing and daily suggestions
  • Web and app with one account
  • Photos reviewed before they appear
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $29.99 (US App Store)
12

OurTime

3.9

Best for: Over 50s who like to browse

  • Built for people over 50
  • Very easy to use
  • Free to search and like
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $19.99 for 1 week (US App Store)
13

Best for: Christian singles in the US, Canada and Australia

  • Free members can message their matches
  • Everyone joined to meet Christians
  • Selfie verification badge
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $49.99/mo (US App Store)
14

Best for: Free messaging and searching a big pool yourself

  • Free messaging with matches
  • Huge, broad membership
  • You can search and filter yourself
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $19.99 (US App Store)
15

Badoo

3.7

Best for: Meeting people nearby on a budget

  • Generous free version for matching and chatting
  • Built-in video and voice calls
  • Photo and ID verification
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $13.99/week for Premium (US)
17

Hily

3.6

Best for: Younger daters who want a free, easy swipe app

  • Free matching and chat
  • Easy to start
  • Verification badges and 24/7 moderation
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $7.99 (US App Store)
18

happn

3.6

Best for: City dwellers who want to meet people nearby

  • Unique real-world discovery
  • Free matching and chat
  • Simple to use
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $14.99 (US App Store)

Niche & community dating sites

Smaller sites and apps built for a specific community — often the best place to start.

Grindr

3.8

Best for: Gay and bi men meeting people nearby

  • Biggest community of gay and bi men
  • Free messaging with no need to match
  • Works almost everywhere
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $14.99 (US App Store)

Taimi

3.9

Best for: LGBTQ+ singles of every identity

  • Built for all LGBTQ+ identities
  • Dating and friendship in one app
  • Free matching and chat
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $5.99/mo (Taimi’s own comparison)

JDate

3.9

Best for: Jewish singles

  • Focused Jewish community
  • Basic members can message their matches
  • Free preferences for denomination and synagogue
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $49.99 for 1 month (US App Store)

Muzz

4.3

Best for: Muslims looking for marriage

  • Built for Muslim marriage
  • Strong privacy and required selfie checks
  • Free matching and chat
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $9.99 (US App Store)

BLK

3.8

Best for: Black singles who want a community-focused swipe app

  • Built for Black singles
  • Free swiping, matching and chat
  • Dating intent shown on every profile
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $9.99 (US App Store)

Chispa

3.7

Best for: Latino singles

  • Built for Latino and Latina singles
  • Free matching and chat
  • Face Check video verification
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $9.99 (US App Store)

Dil Mil

3.8

Best for: South Asian singles

  • Built for the South Asian diaspora
  • Free matching and messaging
  • In-app audio and video chat
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $19.99 (US App Store)

Best for: Rural and country singles

  • Community that shares a rural lifestyle
  • Profiles and photos reviewed by staff
  • Free to browse and send flirts
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $29.95 for 1 month (US App Store)

Loosid

3.8

Best for: Sober and sober-curious singles

  • Everyone shares a sober lifestyle
  • Free to match and chat
  • A community app beside dating
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $9.99 a week (US App Store)

Best for: People with disabilities or chronic illness

  • Unlimited free swipes, matches and messages
  • Built by and for disabled and chronically ill people
  • Optional Deets and photo alt text
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $4.99/mo (US App Store)

Best for: Career-driven professionals

  • Reviewed, verified members
  • Curated daily Batch
  • Free matching and messaging
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $19.99 (US App Store)

RSVP

3.8

Best for: Australians over 35 looking for a relationship

  • Long-running local site in Australia
  • Pay-per-conversation option
  • Free to search, Wink and reply
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ A$12.99 per Stamp (Australian App Store)

Best for: Countryside singles in the UK and Ireland

  • A real rural community in the UK and Ireland
  • Free to search, match and view photos
  • Website and apps
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ £7.50/mo on longer website plans

Best for: City professionals who want a screened community

  • Screened members
  • Events as well as the app
  • Strong in London and European cities
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $6.99 for a week pass (US App Store)

Best for: Catholics looking for marriage

  • Built specifically for Catholics
  • Marriage-minded members
  • Free messaging with mutual matches
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $10/mo (12-month plan)

Mutual

4.0

Best for: Latter-day Saint singles

  • Built for Latter-day Saints
  • Free messaging with no time limit
  • Profiles reviewed before they appear
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $7.99 (US App Store)

Best for: Latter-day Saints over 30 who prefer a website

  • Built for Latter-day Saints
  • Basic members can message their matches
  • Free mission and church preferences
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $49.99 for 1 month (US App Store)

EME Hive

3.6

Best for: Asian American singles in North America

  • Built for Asian and Asian American singles since 2013
  • Background, language and arrival-age filters
  • Free members can send messages
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $8.99/mo (website)

Salams

3.8

Best for: Muslims looking for marriage

  • Long-running Muslim community
  • Free matching and messaging
  • Friendship mode as well as marriage
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $19.99 (US App Store)

Upward

3.7

Best for: Marriage-minded singles who like swiping, including Christians

  • Free matching and chat
  • Clear about marriage goals
  • Modern, easy app
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $17.99 for 1 week (US App Store)

Best for: Over-50s who want a site just for their age group

  • For people over 50
  • Standard members can reply for free
  • Voice and video calls
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $33.99 for 1 month (US App Store)

Stitch

3.8

Best for: Over-50s who want company and activities, not just dates

  • Friendship and dating in one
  • Real-world events
  • All members must verify before messaging
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $7/mo

SCRUFF

3.7

Best for: Gay and bi men who want more than a grid

  • Long-established community
  • Events and travel features
  • Free chat with no need to match
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $9.99 (US App Store)

Lex

3.7

Best for: LGBTQ+ people who want community and friends as well as dates

  • Built for LGBTQ+ people, with zero tolerance for transphobia
  • Personality over swiping
  • Free to read, post and message
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $3.99 (US App Store)

Stir

3.7

Best for: Single parents who need dating to fit a busy schedule

  • Built for single parents
  • StirTime scheduling
  • Free matching and chat
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $19.99 for 1 week (US App Store)

Hiki

3.8

Best for: Neurodivergent adults looking for friends or a partner

  • Designed for neurodivergent adults
  • Clear friendship vs dating signals
  • Free to match and chat
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $19.95 for 1 week (US App Store)

How to choose from the best dating sites

What dating site is the best? The one where people like you are looking for the same thing. The best dating websites and apps differ a lot in who uses them, so four questions narrow it down quickly:

  1. What do you want? For something long-term, start with our ranking of sites for serious relationships or marriage. For something lighter, see casual dating sites.
  2. How old are you? Tinder and Bumble skew young. Match and eHarmony have many members over 40, and some sites are built for later life, such as those in our over-50 ranking.
  3. Does a shared community matter? There are dating sites for people who share a faith, a culture, an identity or a situation, from LGBTQ+ and Christian daters to single parents. The rankings above list them all.
  4. Do you want to pay? Some sites let you message for free, others don’t (see below).

The first ten sites in our full ranking above are the top 10 dating sites for most people; the rest serve specific communities. Still unsure? Our dating site quiz suggests the sites that fit you in about a minute.

The most popular dating sites and apps

Three in ten US adults have used a dating site or app, rising to 53% of people under 30. Among Americans who have used online dating, these were the most widely used platforms in Pew Research Center’s 2022 survey (Pew Research Center, 2023):

PlatformShare of online daters who have used it
Tinder46%
Match31%
Bumble28%
OkCupid, eHarmony, HingeAbout 20% each

Tinder is the online dating service most people have tried, but popular isn’t the same as best for you, so which dating app is the best depends on your goals. The top dating sites give you the most chances to meet people online, but a smaller site where everyone wants the same thing can work better, especially if you want a relationship or belong to a specific community. Our ranking of singles dating sites compares the big general apps by who you’ll meet on each.

Free vs paid dating sites

About a third of online daters (35%) have paid for a dating platform, according to the same Pew survey. Whether you need to pay on the best online dating sites depends on the site:

  • Free to match and message: Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid, Plenty of Fish, Badoo, Coffee Meets Bagel, HER, Hily, Match and Facebook Dating, which has no paid plans at all. Paying mainly adds more likes, filters or visibility.
  • Free to join, paid to message: eHarmony, SilverSingles, OurTime and Zoosk. You can create a profile and browse, but talking to matches needs a subscription.

A paid plan often means members are more serious, but it isn’t a guarantee. Try the free version first. Our ranking of free dating sites covers the best options if you don’t want to pay at all.

Is there a difference between dating sites and dating apps?

Less than there used to be. Most big dating websites now have apps, and some of the most popular services only exist as apps. If you prefer a laptop, pick a site with a web version, such as Match, eHarmony, Tinder, OkCupid or Plenty of Fish. Hinge, Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel, HER, happn, Hily and Facebook Dating work on your phone only. Bumble closed its website version in 2025.

Best dating apps for Android and iPhone

Every service in our ranking has both an iPhone app and an Android app, so your phone doesn’t limit your choice. Pick by goal instead. Hinge suits people who want a relationship, Tinder has the biggest free pool, and Facebook Dating is the easy option if you already use Facebook. One practical difference: a subscription bought through the App Store or Google Play has to be cancelled there, not on the dating site, and app prices can differ from website prices.

How to stay safe on online dating sites

If you’re dating online for the first time, a few simple habits protect you from fake profiles and scams: keep chats on the site until you trust someone, video call before meeting, meet in public and never send money to someone you haven’t met. Our safety guides cover romance scams and how to verify a match.

How we chose

We ranked sites on match quality, features, value, safety and ease of use, and weighed how well each fits this audience. See how we rate dating sites.

Frequently asked questions

What dating site is the best?

For most people who want a relationship, Hinge is the best place to start: detailed profiles, free messaging and a relationship-minded crowd. If you want guided, marriage-focused matching and are happy to pay, choose eHarmony. For the biggest free pool of people, try Tinder.

Which dating app has the most users?

Tinder is the most widely used. In Pew Research Center’s 2022 survey, 46% of Americans who had used online dating had used Tinder, ahead of Match at 31% and Bumble at 28%. OkCupid, eHarmony and Hinge had each been used by about one in five online daters.

Are dating sites free?

Many are free to join, but not all are free to use. Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid and Plenty of Fish let you match and message without paying, and Facebook Dating has no paid plans at all. eHarmony and most sites for over 50s charge for messaging, while Match’s free members can chat only with their matches.

What is the best dating site for a serious relationship?

eHarmony and Hinge are the strongest choices. eHarmony matches you on compatibility after a quiz and suits people over 30 who want commitment. Hinge is free to start and popular with people in their late 20s and 30s. Match is a good middle ground with a big pool and detailed search.

How do I choose the right dating site?

Start with your goal, your age and whether a shared community matters to you, then decide if you’re willing to pay. Our rankings by audience narrow the choice, and our free dating site quiz suggests the best matches for you in about a minute. Try one site for a few weeks before paying.