Our verdict
Hiki is a friendship and dating app made for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent adults. You can signal romantic or friendly interest separately, describe your traits in your own words and join a community feed.
Bottom line: A thoughtful, low-pressure place for neurodivergent adults. Pair it with a mainstream app if you want a bigger local pool.
Great for: Neurodivergent adults looking for friends or a partner
Not ideal for: People looking for a large, fast-paced swipe app.
Built for neurodivergent adults
Hiki is a friendship and dating app for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent adults, created by a small neurodivergent team. It starts from a simple observation: mainstream apps reward split-second judgements, witty banter and a polished, socially optimised version of yourself — exactly the things many neurodivergent people find exhausting.
Hiki changes a few basics. When you like someone, you choose a heart for romantic interest or a smile for friendship, so intentions are clear from the first tap and nobody has to guess. Profiles let you describe your traits and support needs in your own words, and a community feed lets you post, comment and react, so the app is about belonging as well as matching. The community is also welcoming to LGBTQIA+, gender non-conforming and non-binary members.
Who it suits: neurodivergent adults who want friends, a partner or both, and would like to skip the unwritten rules of mainstream dating apps.
What to keep in mind: the pool is small compared with big apps and members are spread across many countries, so local matches can be few. Premium adds useful safety and visibility features, but its price is only shown inside the app.
Our tip: use the profile space to say how you like to communicate — texting first, a video call, a quiet café, a walk rather than a busy bar. On Hiki, stating preferences like these is normal, and it makes first meetings far more comfortable for everyone.
Hiki at a glance
| Audience | 18+, autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent people, worldwide |
|---|---|
| Typical goal | Friendship, dating and community |
| Free version | Yes — Profile and matching, Heart for dating, smile for friendship, Community feed, Messaging with matches |
| Paid from | price shown in the app (see all plans) |
| Platforms | iOS, Android |
Pros and cons
Pros
- Designed for neurodivergent adults
- Clear friendship vs dating signals
- Free to use
- ID verification for Premium
Cons
- Smaller pool than mainstream apps
- Premium price not published outside the app
- Members are spread worldwide
Key features
- Friendship or romance
- A heart shows romantic interest and a smile shows friendship, so intentions are clear from the start.
- Built by and for neurodivergent people
- Profiles let you describe your traits and support needs in your own words.
- Community feed
- Post, comment and react — connection beyond one-to-one chats.
How much does Hiki cost?
| Plan | Indicative price | What you get |
|---|---|---|
| Free | $0 | Profile and matching, Heart for dating, smile for friendship, Community feed, Messaging with matches |
| Hiki Premium | Shown in the app | ID-verified badge, See who liked you, Sparks and boosts, Browse other cities, Video messages |
Prices are indicative, in US dollars unless another currency is shown, and were checked September 23, 2026. Apps often charge different amounts by country, age, platform and plan length — confirm the final price in the app before paying.
Want the full breakdown and ways to save? Read our Hiki pricing guide and free trial options.
Is Hiki safe?
Premium profiles can be ID-verified. Report anyone who pressures you, and meet in quiet, public places you know.
Before meeting anyone, follow our verification checklist.
Not sure Hiki is right for you?
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Best for: People with disabilities or chronic illness
- Welcoming, understanding community
- You control disclosure
- Free core features
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid from
- ≈ $5/mo
Best for: Matching on values and answers, not just photos
- Match percentage based on real answers
- Free messaging with matches
- Very inclusive for LGBTQ+ and non-binary daters
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid from
- ≈ $10/mo
Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s
- Detailed, conversation-friendly profiles
- Strong focus on real relationships
- Free version is usable
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid from
- ≈ $30/mo
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Hiki FAQ
Is Hiki free?
Yes — you can join, match and chat for free. Hiki Premium adds ID verification and extras.
Is Hiki only for dating?
No — you can look for friendship, romance or both, and signal which with a smile or a heart.
Who can join Hiki?
Hiki is built for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent adults.