Best sites · Orientation & identity
The best apps for bisexual dating let you show your orientation and meet more than one gender. Taimi is built for the whole LGBTQ+ community, Hinge is best for a relationship, and HER is the top pick for bi women and nonbinary people.
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Visit Hinge| Site | Fit for bisexual | Overall | Best for | Free version | Paid from | Link |
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| Taimi | LGBTQ+ singles of every identity | Yes | ≈ $5.99/mo (Taimi’s own comparison) | Visit | ||
| Hinge | Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s | Yes | ≈ $16.99 (US App Store) | Visit | ||
| HER | LGBTQ+ women and queer people | Yes | ≈ $14.99 (US App Store) | Visit | ||
| Tinder | Meeting lots of people fast | Yes | ≈ $9.99 (US App Store) | Visit | ||
| OkCupid | Matching on values and answers as well as photos | Yes | ≈ $10/mo | Visit |
We rank for this audience, so the order follows the fit score. The overall rating reflects the site as a whole. How we score.
Fit for bisexual · Overall rating 3.9
Best for: LGBTQ+ singles of every identity
An LGBTQ+-first app for the whole spectrum, with dozens of gender and orientation options at sign-up and a social feed. Matching and messaging are free, and nobody there expects you to pick a side.
Fit for bisexual · Overall rating 4.5
Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s
Gender is a free preference, and you can show your sexuality next to your gender on your profile or keep it hidden. Dating intentions on every profile help you find someone serious, and messaging matches is free.
Fit for bisexual · Overall rating 4.1
Best for: LGBTQ+ women and queer people
Built for lesbian, bi and queer women, trans women and nonbinary people, with community feeds and events alongside dating. Matching and messaging are free.
Fit for bisexual · Overall rating 4.0
Best for: Meeting lots of people fast
The biggest pool. You can pick more than one gender for yourself, add your sexual orientation and choose whether it shows on your profile. Free to match and message.
Fit for bisexual · Overall rating 4.0
Best for: Matching on values and answers as well as photos
A long list of gender and orientation options plus pronouns, and matching questions that help you find people who share your values, not only your type. Messaging is free.
Bisexual dating works best on an app that lets you see more than one gender in one place and say who you are without a fuss. Look for four things before you sign up: a gender preference that covers everyone you want to meet, a way to show “bisexual” on your profile (and hide it if you’re not out to everyone), quick blocking and reporting for biphobic messages, and enough people near you.
The apps in this ranking all tick the first three boxes. Hinge, for example, lets you show your sexuality on your profile or keep it private, but it doesn’t let you filter matches by sexuality (Hinge help). Tinder lets you add your orientation and hides it automatically in places where LGBTQ+ identities are criminalized (Tinder help).
There’s no big app built only for bisexual people, so most bi singles choose between LGBTQ+-first apps and the mainstream ones. Taimi and HER are built around queer communities, so you’re less likely to have to explain or defend your orientation. Hinge, Tinder and OkCupid have far bigger pools. Lesbian, gay and bisexual adults in the US are almost twice as likely as straight adults to have used a dating site or app, 51% against 28% (Pew Research Center, 2023), so you’ll find bi people on all of them. Using one of each is a good balance.
HER is the obvious first app for bi women: it’s built for lesbian, bisexual and queer women and nonbinary people, with events and groups as well as dating. If you also want to meet men, add Hinge or Tinder and set your gender preference to include them. Lesbian and bisexual women who want a relationship often use HER for community and Hinge for reach.
Bi men have fewer dedicated spaces. Taimi is the most welcoming LGBTQ+ app for the whole spectrum, and Grindr is built for gay, bi, trans and queer people who want to meet nearby. On the mainstream side, Tinder and Hinge let you see men and women in one place and show your orientation, so matches know from the start.
Hinge offers Man, Woman and Non-binary with more specific identities, and Tinder lets you choose as many genders as describe you. HER welcomes trans women and nonbinary people, and Taimi has the widest set of identity options. See our rankings of transgender dating sites and LGBTQ+ dating sites for more.
All five apps here let you match and message for free. Paid plans add extras such as seeing who likes you or more filters, but you don’t need them to start. If you’re over 50, eHarmony lets you look for men, women or everyone, though full messaging there needs Premium.
Taimi, HER, Hinge, Tinder and OkCupid work the same way in the US, UK, Canada and Australia, and all of them are in each country’s app store. Your pool depends far more on your city than your country: in smaller towns, widen your distance setting and use two apps at once.
Bi people sometimes get questions about whether they’re “really” bi, or messages from couples looking for a third who don’t say so upfront. You don’t owe anyone an explanation: block and report people who are disrespectful, and say clearly on your profile what you’re looking for, whether that’s a relationship, dating or friends.
Show your orientation on your profile if you’re comfortable; it helps you find people who respect it and filters out those who don’t. Say what you’re looking for, too, so matches know what to expect. A photo that shows your interests gives people an easy opener.
Report anyone who is disrespectful, and keep chats in the app until you trust someone. Video call before meeting, choose a public place for a first date and tell a friend where you’ll be.
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Taimi is the most inclusive, built for the whole LGBTQ+ community. Hinge is the best choice for a relationship, and you can show your sexuality on your profile. HER is the top pick for bi women and nonbinary people, and Tinder has the biggest pool.
There’s no major app only for bisexual people. Most bi singles use LGBTQ+-first apps such as Taimi and HER, which welcome the whole spectrum, alongside mainstream apps such as Hinge, Tinder and OkCupid that let you see more than one gender and show your orientation.
HER is built for lesbian, bisexual and queer women and nonbinary people, with community events as well as dating. If you also want to meet men, add Hinge for relationships or Tinder for the biggest pool, and set your gender preference to include them.
Taimi is the most welcoming LGBTQ+ app for the whole spectrum, and Grindr is built for gay, bi, trans and queer people nearby. Tinder and Hinge let you see men and women in one place and show your orientation on your profile.
Yes. Taimi, Hinge, HER, Tinder and OkCupid are all free to match and message, with paid plans for extras such as seeing who likes you or advanced filters. Using two free apps at once is the easiest way to reach more people.
Say clearly on your profile what you’re looking for, such as a one-on-one relationship, and check profiles for signs of a couple before you match. Block and report anyone who hides that they’re part of a couple; honest people will say so upfront.