Our verdict
HER is the best-known app built specifically for lesbian, bi and queer women and non-binary people.
Bottom line: Start here if you are an LGBTQ+ woman or queer person who wants a community-focused dating app.
Great for: LGBTQ+ women and queer people
Not ideal for: Straight or gay men.
HER at a glance
| Audience | 18–40, LGBTQ+ women, non-binary and queer people |
|---|---|
| Typical goal | Dating, relationships and community |
| Free version | Yes — Matching, Messaging, Community feeds, Events |
| Paid from | ≈ $15/mo (see all plans) |
| Platforms | iOS, Android |
Pros and cons
Pros
- Safe, focused community
- Free matching and messaging
- Community and events beyond dating
Cons
- Smaller outside big cities
- Premium is pricey for what it adds
Key features
- Built for queer women
- Designed by and for LGBTQ+ women and non-binary people.
- Communities
- Join groups and feeds based on interests and identity.
- Events
- Discover local and online LGBTQ+ events.
How much does HER cost?
| Plan | Indicative price | What you get |
|---|---|---|
| Free | $0 | Matching, Messaging, Community feeds, Events |
| HER Premium | ≈ $15–30/mo | See who likes you, Advanced filters, Incognito, Unlimited swipes |
Prices are indicative US prices checked September 16, 2026. Apps often charge different amounts by country, age, platform and plan length — confirm the final price in the app before paying.
Want the full breakdown and ways to save? Read our HER pricing guide and free trial options.
Is HER safe?
HER verifies accounts and moderates community content. Report anyone who misrepresents themselves.
Before meeting anyone, follow our verification checklist.
Not sure HER is right for you?
These alternatives may suit you better depending on your goals. See all HER alternatives.
Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s
- Detailed, conversation-friendly profiles
- Strong focus on real relationships
- Free version is usable
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid from
- ≈ $30/mo
Best for: Women who want more control
- Less unwanted messaging for women
- Relationship-minded user base
- Strong verification and safety features
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid from
- ≈ $15/mo
Best for: Meeting lots of people fast
- Huge, active user base almost everywhere
- Free version lets you match and chat
- Very fast and easy to use
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid from
- ≈ $10/mo
Compare HER
- vs HER vs Bumble HER is built by and for queer women; Bumble is a mainstream dating site with strong safety features and a large pool.
- vs HER vs Taimi Both are LGBTQ+-first. HER focuses on queer women and non-binary people; Taimi welcomes the whole community, including gay men.
HER FAQ
Is HER free?
Yes, matching and messaging are free; Premium adds extras.
Who is HER for?
Lesbian, bisexual, queer and non-binary people, plus trans women.
What are good alternatives to HER?
Hinge and Bumble both have strong LGBTQ+ options. See best LGBTQ+ dating sites.