Best sites · Orientation & identity
The best sites and apps for trans and non-binary daters combine inclusive identity options with strong moderation.
| Site | Fit for trans & non-binary | Overall | Best for | Free version | Paid from | Link |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Taimi | LGBTQ+ singles of every identity | Yes | ≈ $15/mo | Visit | ||
| HER | LGBTQ+ women and queer people | Yes | ≈ $15/mo | Visit | ||
| Hinge | Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s | Yes | ≈ $30/mo | Visit | ||
| Tinder | Meeting lots of people fast | Yes | ≈ $10/mo | Visit |
We rank for this audience, so the order follows the fit score. The overall rating reflects the site as a whole. How we score.
Fit for trans & non-binary · Overall rating 3.9
Best for: LGBTQ+ singles of every identity
LGBTQ+-first, with a wide range of gender identities.
Fit for trans & non-binary · Overall rating 4.1
Best for: LGBTQ+ women and queer people
A queer community welcoming trans women and non-binary people.
Fit for trans & non-binary · Overall rating 4.5
Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s
Inclusive gender options and strong moderation.
Fit for trans & non-binary · Overall rating 4.0
Best for: Meeting lots of people fast
Large user base with multiple gender identity options.
Share what you’re comfortable with, when you’re comfortable. Use blocking and reporting tools without hesitation, and choose public, trans-friendly venues for first dates.
We ranked sites on match quality, features, value, safety and ease of use, and weighed how well each fits this audience. Read our full testing methodology.
Sites and apps with strong moderation and inclusive options — like Taimi, HER and Hinge — tend to be safest. Always meet in public.