Review

Is Stitch a Good Community for People Over 50?

A community for over-50s, with friendship, activities, travel and dating.

3.8Our rating

Best for: Over-50s who want company and activities, not just dates

Visit StitchFree to join · Paid from ≈ $7/mo

Our verdict

Stitch is a community for people over 50 that mixes companionship, activities, events and travel with dating. Limited membership is free, and members must verify before they can message each other.

Bottom line: Ideal if you want to meet people your age through shared activities. For dating only, SilverSingles or OurTime are more direct.

Great for: Over-50s who want company and activities, not just dates

Not ideal for: People under 50 or who want a dating-only app.

What Stitch is

This Stitch review covers a community for adults over 50, run by Stitch Holdings Pty Ltd. Stitch doesn’t call itself a dating site. It’s about companionship, which it says covers “friends, marriage, and everything in between” (Stitch). Some members want a partner, while others want someone to go ballroom dancing with or to share a room on a trip. You must be over 50 to join.

Stitch even welcomes married and partnered people who want a non-romantic activity partner. So don’t assume that everyone you meet is single. Ask.

How Stitch works

There are three main parts. Community covers local and virtual activities, groups such as a book club or hiking group, and discussion forums. Members lets you browse profiles and connect one-on-one. Messages holds your private conversations (Stitch).

Much of it is run by members themselves, who suggest and host activities. Stitch Travel, currently in beta, lets you join group trips through travel partners. You can use Stitch on the web and in iPhone and Android apps. It’s in English only, and you can’t choose a plan in the iPhone app.

Where Stitch is active

Its largest communities are in the US, UK, Australia, Canada and New Zealand, and members attended activities in over 85 countries in the past year (Stitch). It says more than 400,000 people have found connection on Stitch. Activity still comes down to your own area. If nobody’s running anything nearby, you can suggest an activity yourself.

What’s free

Limited membership is free forever. You can go to public events, join public groups and reply to messages, though you have 48 hours to reply. Stitch says it doesn’t show ads or sell your information to fund this. To start conversations and join member-only events, you need Full membership. See what Stitch costs.

Is Stitch safe?

This is where Stitch stands out. Before you can communicate with others, you have to verify your account, either with a photo of you holding a unique code, or through a trusted member called a Community Champion (Stitch). You don’t need personal documents, and Stitch says it deletes verification information once you’re verified.

Stitch also says it has never had a member scammed on the platform. We can’t verify that claim, and a verified account doesn’t tell you someone’s honest, so never send money to anyone. Our romance scam guide shows what to look for. App ratings are thin: 3.6 out of 5 from only 74 ratings in the US App Store, and 3.3 from 282 on Google Play (checked November 1, 2026).

Stitch vs SilverSingles

SilverSingles is a dating site that suggests matches. Stitch is better if you want activities and friends, and romance only if it comes. See Stitch vs SilverSingles.

Who it suits

It suits people over 50 who want to get out and meet others, including people who’ve lost a partner and want a gentle way back into social life. If you only want dating, it’ll feel indirect. Our over-50 dating sites ranking, widows and widowers ranking and friendship apps ranking compare your options.

Our tip

Go to one activity before you write a single message. Stitch works best once you’ve met people, and it takes the pressure off that first conversation. New members can attend up to three activities before they need to verify.

Stitch at a glance

AudienceOver 50; largest communities in the US, UK, Australia, Canada and New Zealand
Typical goalCompanionship, friendship and dating
Free versionYes — Limited membership, free forever, Public events and groups, Reply to messages within 48 hours, Create activities where there is no local community yet
Paid from≈ $7/mo (see all plans)
PlatformsiOS, Android, Web

Pros and cons

Pros

  • Friendship and dating in one
  • Real-world events
  • All members must verify before messaging
  • Free Limited membership

Cons

  • Less focused on dating
  • Activity depends on your area
  • Starting conversations needs a paid plan
  • Married members are welcome, so ask

Key features

Events and activities
Meet people at local and virtual activities, many of them suggested and hosted by members.
Companionship first
Stitch doesn’t call itself a dating site. Members come for friends, activity partners and romance.
Verification
Every member must verify before messaging others, with a photo code or a trusted Community Champion.

How much does Stitch cost?

PlanIndicative priceWhat you get
Free$0Limited membership, free forever, Public events and groups, Reply to messages within 48 hours, Create activities where there is no local community yet
Basic≈ $7+/mo (£4+ in the UK); $60 a year in Stitch’s FAQMember-only events and groups, Organize local activities, Limited direct messages
Standard$120 a year in Stitch’s FAQEverything in Basic, Browse profiles and make connections, Private groups and activities
Plus$180 a year in Stitch’s FAQEverything in Standard, Ticketed events and public groups, Phone support

Prices are indicative, in US dollars unless another currency is shown, and were checked November 1, 2026. Apps often charge different amounts by country, age, platform and plan length — confirm the final price in the app before paying.

Want the full breakdown and ways to save? Read our Stitch pricing guide and free trial options.

Is Stitch safe?

Every member has to verify before messaging others. Meet at public events first, and never send money to anyone you’ve met online.

Before meeting anyone, follow our verification checklist.

Not sure Stitch is right for you?

These alternatives may suit you better depending on your goals. See all Stitch alternatives.

OurTime

3.9

Best for: Over 50s who like to browse

  • Built for people over 50
  • Very easy to use
  • Free to search and like
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $19.99 for 1 week (US App Store)

Best for: Over 50s who want an age-limited, verified community

  • Only singles over 50
  • Every visible profile verified by selfie video
  • Voice and video calls that hide your number
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $18.99/mo (US App Store)

Best for: Over-50s who want a site just for their age group

  • For people over 50
  • Standard members can reply for free
  • Voice and video calls
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $33.99 for 1 month (US App Store)

eHarmony

4.4

Best for: Serious relationships and marriage

  • Strong focus on long-term compatibility
  • Detailed quiz and compatibility scores
  • Free Basic membership with no time limit
Free version
Limited
Premium
shown after you sign up

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Stitch FAQ

Is Stitch a dating app?

Not exactly. Stitch says it isn’t a dating site, but a community for over-50s where many members go on dates alongside friendship and activities.

Is Stitch free?

Limited membership is free forever. Full membership starts from $7 a month and unlocks member-only events and messaging.

Where is Stitch available?

Its largest communities are in the US, UK, Australia, Canada and New Zealand, and members attended activities in over 85 countries in the past year. Some countries aren’t supported yet.

Can married people join Stitch?

Yes, if they want non-romantic activity partners. So don’t assume that everyone you meet is single.