Stitch · Alternatives

Sites Like Stitch for Over-50s

Stitch isn’t for everyone. Here are the best dating sites to try instead, depending on what you want.

When to look at Stitch alternatives

Stitch is hard to replace if you want activities and company as well as romance. People look at sites like Stitch when nothing’s happening near them, when they only want to date, or when they want more choice of people to write to.

If you want a straightforward dating site

OurTime is built for older singles, and it’s simple to use.

If you want someone to suggest matches

SilverSingles uses a personality test and sends you suggestions, and it’s for people over 50. See Stitch vs SilverSingles.

If you like forums and talking first

SeniorMatch is for people over 50, and it has forums as well as dating.

If you want something long-term

eHarmony uses a long compatibility quiz, and it suits people who are ready for a committed relationship at any age.

If you’re in Australia

Stitch is active in Australia, and RSVP is a good local option for people who’d like to date. It’s free to search and Wink.

If you mainly want friends

Our friendship apps ranking lists more ways to meet people. Local clubs, walking groups and volunteering are good options too, and they’re free. Our over-60 dating sites ranking and widows and widowers ranking compare other services for older adults.

Comparison table

SiteRatingBest forFree versionPaid fromLink
OurTime 3.9 Over 50s who like to browse Limited ≈ $19.99 for 1 week (US App Store) Visit
SilverSingles 4.2 Over 50s who want an age-limited, verified community Limited ≈ $18.99/mo (US App Store) Visit
SeniorMatch 3.7 Over-50s who want a site just for their age group Limited ≈ $33.99 for 1 month (US App Store) Visit
eHarmony 4.4 Serious relationships and marriage Limited shown after you sign up Visit
Bumble 4.2 A big, well-moderated swipe app Yes ≈ $2.99 for Boost (US App Store) Visit
Match 4.2 Serious daters who like to search Yes ≈ $19.99 (US App Store) Visit
HER 4.1 LGBTQ+ women and queer people Yes ≈ $14.99 (US App Store) Visit

The best alternatives

1

OurTime

3.9

Best for: Over 50s who like to browse

  • Built for people over 50
  • Very easy to use
  • Free to search and like
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $19.99 for 1 week (US App Store)
2

Best for: Over 50s who want an age-limited, verified community

  • Only singles over 50
  • Every visible profile verified by selfie video
  • Voice and video calls that hide your number
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $18.99/mo (US App Store)
3

Best for: Over-50s who want a site just for their age group

  • For people over 50
  • Standard members can reply for free
  • Voice and video calls
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $33.99 for 1 month (US App Store)
4

eHarmony

4.4

Best for: Serious relationships and marriage

  • Strong focus on long-term compatibility
  • Detailed quiz and compatibility scores
  • Free Basic membership with no time limit
Free version
Limited
Premium
shown after you sign up
5

Bumble

4.2

Best for: A big, well-moderated swipe app

  • Big pool, with 100M+ Google Play downloads
  • Photo verification required in the US
  • Free in-app voice and video calls
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $2.99 for Boost (US App Store)
6

Match

4.2

Best for: Serious daters who like to search

  • Large, relationship-minded community
  • Free members can chat with their matches
  • Strong search, on the web and in apps
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $19.99 (US App Store)
7

HER

4.1

Best for: LGBTQ+ women and queer people

  • Focused LGBTQ+ community
  • Free matching and messaging
  • Communities beyond dating
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $14.99 (US App Store)

Frequently asked questions

What is the best alternative to Stitch?

OurTime is our top Stitch alternative for most people. The best choice depends on your goals.

Is there a free alternative to Stitch?