Best sites · Lifestyle & needs
Dating without drinks is more common than ever. These sites make it easy to find people who share your lifestyle.
| Site | Fit for sober dating | Overall | Best for | Free version | Paid from | Link |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Loosid | Sober and sober-curious singles | Yes | ≈ $10/mo | Visit | ||
| Hinge | Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s | Yes | ≈ $30/mo | Visit | ||
| Bumble | Women who want more control | Yes | ≈ $15/mo | Visit |
We rank for this audience, so the order follows the fit score. The overall rating reflects the site as a whole. How we score.
Fit for sober dating · Overall rating 3.8
Best for: Sober and sober-curious singles
Built for sober and sober-curious people, with community features.
Fit for sober dating · Overall rating 4.5
Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s
Profiles show drinking habits so you can find non-drinkers.
Fit for sober dating · Overall rating 4.2
Best for: Women who want more control
Lifestyle filters include drinking.
Mention that you don’t drink in your profile and suggest alcohol-free dates: coffee, a walk, a gallery or brunch. See our first date ideas.
We ranked sites on match quality, features, value, safety and ease of use, and weighed how well each fits this audience. Read our full testing methodology.
Yes — Loosid is designed for sober living. Hinge and Bumble also let you show or filter drinking habits.