Short answer
ℹ️ Stir is free to browse and message mutual matches; paid plans add more ways to connect. Offers appear in the app.
What you can do for free
- Profile and browsing
- Messaging with mutual matches
- Stir Time scheduling
Can you try Stir for free?
There is no standard free trial, but the free version lets you:
- create a profile as a single parent;
- browse members;
- message mutual matches;
- use Stir Time to share your availability;
- occasionally message top picks for free.
Premium adds messaging before matching, boosts and priority likes.
Making the most of the free version
- Set up Stir Time first. It is the feature that makes Stir different.
- Say how old your children are (without names or photos) — it helps others understand your life.
- Like people whose schedules overlap with yours. It makes a first date realistic.
- Keep early chats on the app until you trust someone.
When to upgrade
If you are getting likes but struggling to find time to match and chat, Premium's message-before-matching can save you days. Otherwise, the free version shows whether Stir has enough parents near you.
Be cautious with third-party "free Premium" offers — genuine discounts appear in the app.
Finally, be realistic about timing: many single parents find evenings when the children are with a co-parent are the easiest time to use the app, so Stir Time works best if you keep it up to date as your schedule changes.
If you share custody on a rotating schedule, update your availability at the start of each week so matches see accurate times.
Current plan prices
| Plan | Indicative price | What you get |
|---|---|---|
| Free | $0 | Profile and browsing, Messaging with mutual matches, Stir Time scheduling |
| Standard | ≈ $17+/mo | More ways to connect |
| Premium | ≈ $18–40/mo | See your instant matches, Message before matching, Profile boosts, Move your like to the top |
Prices are indicative, in US dollars unless another currency is shown, and were checked September 23, 2026. Apps often charge different amounts by country, age, platform and plan length — confirm the final price in the app before paying.
Frequently asked questions
Does Stir offer a free trial?
Stir is free to browse and message mutual matches; paid plans add more ways to connect. Offers appear in the app.
Are there Stir promo codes?
Stir rarely publishes public promo codes. Discounts usually appear inside your account for new or returning members. Be careful with third-party “code” sites.