Whether you are divorced, widowed or single for a while, dating after 50 can be exciting. Here is how to get started with confidence.
Step 1: Decide what you want
Companionship, a long-term partner, marriage, or someone to travel with? Being clear helps you choose the right site and write a better profile.
Step 2: Choose the right dating site
Sites built for mature singles (like SilverSingles and OurTime) or relationship-focused sites (like eHarmony and Match) usually work best. See our full ranking of the best dating sites for over 50s, or take our 1-minute quiz.
Step 3: Create a profile you are proud of
- Use 3–6 recent photos: a clear smile, a full-length photo, and you doing something you enjoy.
- Write about your life now — hobbies, family, what makes you laugh.
- Say what you are looking for.
Our bio guide includes examples for over 50s.
Step 4: Talk before you meet
Chat on the site, then have a video call. It is the easiest way to check that someone is genuine and that you get on.
Step 5: Stay safe
Unfortunately, romance scammers often target people over 50. Warning signs include someone who professes love very quickly, cannot video chat, or asks for money, gift cards or crypto. Never send money to someone you haven’t met. Read our romance scam guide.
Step 6: Talking to family
Adult children can have mixed feelings. Share your plans when you feel ready and reassure them about the safety steps you are taking.
Enjoy it
Treat each conversation as a chance to meet someone interesting, not a test. The right person is worth the wait.
Frequently asked questions
Is it too late to start online dating at 60 or 70?
Not at all. Many people meet partners online in their 60s and 70s, and dating sites for over 50s make it easier.
Should I pay for a dating site over 50?
Paid sites tend to attract more serious members. Try the free tier first, then choose a plan once you like the community.