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Best Mutual Alternatives in 2026

Mutual isn’t for everyone. Here are the best dating sites to try instead, depending on what you want.

Why LDS singles try other options

Mutual is the default for many young Latter-day Saints, but not for everyone:

  • Thin outside Utah and the West.
  • Mostly under-35s, so older members find fewer peers.
  • Swipe format does not suit people who prefer detailed profiles.
  • Occasional mixed intentions, as on any free app.

Alternatives

  • For over-30s who prefer a website: LDS Singles, a long-running LDS site with personalised match suggestions.
  • A large, serious platform with an LDS filter: eHarmony lets you choose Latter-day Saint as the faith you want to match with.
  • A broader Christian pool: Christian Mingle, if you are open to dating outside the Church.
  • Free messaging with faith on your profile: Hinge, useful in cities with smaller LDS communities.

Many members keep Mutual as their main app and add LDS Singles or eHarmony as they get older or move somewhere with fewer Latter-day Saints. Whatever you choose, remember that none of these services are run by the Church. If you delete Mutual, cancel Premium in your app store first — it does not stop on its own.

It also helps to think about stage of life. Young single adults in Utah rarely need anything but Mutual, while mid-singles, divorced members and those living far from large LDS communities often do better combining a specialist app with a mainstream one. Ward and stake activities remain one of the most reliable ways to meet people too, and an app works best alongside them rather than instead of them.

Comparison table

SiteRatingBest forFree versionPaid fromLink
LDS Singles 3.6 Latter-day Saints over 30 who prefer a website Limited ≈ $25/mo Visit
eHarmony 4.4 Serious relationships and marriage Limited ≈ $25/mo Visit
Hinge 4.5 Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s Yes ≈ $30/mo Visit
Match 4.2 Serious daters who like to search Limited ≈ $25/mo Visit
Christian Mingle 3.9 Christian singles Limited ≈ $25/mo Visit
JDate 3.9 Jewish singles Limited ≈ $30/mo Visit

The best alternatives

1

Best for: Latter-day Saints over 30 who prefer a website

  • Built for Latter-day Saints
  • Suits over-30s
  • Web and app
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $25/mo
2

eHarmony

4.4

Best for: Serious relationships and marriage

  • Strong focus on long-term compatibility
  • Serious, older user base
  • Less time wasted on swiping
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $25/mo
3

Hinge

4.5

Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s

  • Detailed, conversation-friendly profiles
  • Strong focus on real relationships
  • Free version is usable
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $30/mo
4

Match

4.2

Best for: Serious daters who like to search

  • Large, relationship-minded community
  • Powerful search filters
  • Web and app versions
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $25/mo
6

JDate

3.9

Best for: Jewish singles

  • Focused Jewish community
  • Relationship-minded members
  • Detailed faith filters
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $30/mo

Frequently asked questions

What is the best alternative to Mutual?

LDS Singles is our top Mutual alternative for most people. The best choice depends on your goals.

Is there a free alternative to Mutual?