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Best Upward Alternatives in 2026

Upward isn’t for everyone. Here are the best dating sites to try instead, depending on what you want.

Why Christians try other apps

  • Smaller pool than mainstream apps.
  • See-who-liked-you is paid (Elite).
  • US-focused.
  • Swipe format feels too casual to some.

Alternatives for Christian singles

  • A serious, profile-based Christian site: Christian Mingle, with an older, marriage-minded crowd (paid messaging).
  • For Catholics: CatholicMatch, built around the Catholic faith and marriage.
  • In the UK: Christian Connection, with member-run meetups.
  • Compatibility matching: eHarmony, where you can choose how important faith is.
  • Free messaging on a big app: Hinge, with religion and prompts on your profile.

A common setup is Upward for a faith-first community plus Hinge for reach — both free to use. If you want something more serious and do not mind paying, Christian Mingle or eHarmony are the natural next steps. Cancel any subscription in your app store before deleting your account.

Location matters too. In the Bible Belt and in larger cities, Upward can be busy enough on its own; in smaller towns and outside the US, the pool shrinks quickly and a mainstream app with faith on your profile becomes more important. Many churches also run young adults' groups and events, which pair naturally with any app and often lead to the most comfortable first meetings. And remember that shared faith is a starting point rather than a guarantee: ask early how someone lives it out week to week.

Comparison table

SiteRatingBest forFree versionPaid fromLink
Christian Mingle 3.9 Christian singles Limited ≈ $25/mo Visit
Hinge 4.5 Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s Yes ≈ $30/mo Visit
CatholicMatch 3.9 Catholics looking for marriage Limited ≈ $10/mo Visit
eHarmony 4.4 Serious relationships and marriage Limited ≈ $25/mo Visit
Match 4.2 Serious daters who like to search Limited ≈ $25/mo Visit
Christian Connection 3.8 Christian singles in the UK and beyond Limited ≈ £12/mo Visit

The best alternatives

2

Hinge

4.5

Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s

  • Detailed, conversation-friendly profiles
  • Strong focus on real relationships
  • Free version is usable
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $30/mo
3

Best for: Catholics looking for marriage

  • Built specifically for Catholics
  • Marriage-minded members
  • Free to read personalised messages
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $10/mo
4

eHarmony

4.4

Best for: Serious relationships and marriage

  • Strong focus on long-term compatibility
  • Serious, older user base
  • Less time wasted on swiping
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $25/mo
5

Match

4.2

Best for: Serious daters who like to search

  • Large, relationship-minded community
  • Powerful search filters
  • Web and app versions
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $25/mo

Frequently asked questions

What is the best alternative to Upward?

Christian Mingle is our top Upward alternative for most people. The best choice depends on your goals.

Is there a free alternative to Upward?